Marriage is never something you’re completely prepared for. Even if you and your wife embarked on some pre-wedding counseling, you never really know what you’re in for until you’re in the thick of the moment. Marriage isn’t always easy. It’s generally not the fairy tale we see splashed across the big screen. There are challenges and conflicts and a couple can easily start to drift apart over time if they’re not putting the effort into the relationship they should. You may feel that’s occurring in your marriage now. Perhaps your wife isn’t as devoted to you as she once was. Maybe she’s not as eager to engage in intimacy with you or she’s become much more critical in recent months or years. You’ve got two choices when you’re faced with this. You can either let it progress as it will or you can change the dynamic of your marriage. If you want to put in just a little effort, you can make your wife crazy about you all over again.
Here are 3 ways to make your wife crazy about you:
Listen more. Many couples fall into a rut when they’ve been married for a time. They stop listening to each other and they don’t absorb what the other is sharing. You may feel that the things your wife tells you aren’t that fundamentally important but to her they are. You need to savor each and every word that comes out of her mouth and invest yourself more in the conversations that you two share. Every woman secretly dreams of being married to a man who hangs on her every word. Once you start listening more you’re going to learn more about the woman you married and that’s a bonus. It will help you both feel closer to one another again.
Be a better co-parent. If you and your wife share children, you have to become an even more in tune co-parent with her. As far as we’ve come down the road towards equality in marriage, women still seem to carry more of the burden when it comes to raising children. Your wife would absolutely adore it if you gave her a night or weekend day off from being a mom. Take the kids and disappear for a few hours and give her full reign of the house to herself. You can also pitch in more by taking the kids to their sports’ practices or dance lessons. Any way that you can contribute more as a father is going to help make your wife feel more appreciative of you. You two are in this parent thing together for the rest of your lives so try and find a better balance.
Encourage her. Everyone needs one person in their life who pushes them towards being the best they possibly can be. You need to become that person for your wife. It’s difficult for a woman if the man she loves and married tells her that her dreams can’t come true or she needs to focus on what’s right in front of her, not what she wants. Your wife has dreams and aspirations, just as you do. If you can get behind those and support her in every way possibly so she achieves her goals, she’ll be completely and utterly crazy about you. Do whatever you can each day to help her realize her full potential.
By putting your wife first, you’ll always be showing her that she’s the center of your universe and the focus of your life. Each small gesture, every single day will help pull her closer to you and create an unbreakable bond between the two of you.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause your wife to feel even more distant from you. You can make your wife fall back in love with you, all over again.
You don’t have to worry about whether your wife is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make her fall hopelessly in love with you.