You’ve started to realize lately that your marriage isn’t what you want it to be. Although your wife and you have built a happy and fulfilling relationship together you’re aware that things have changed on the emotional front for her. She no longer has that bright big smile she used to have when she sees you at the end of the day and she rarely tells you that she loves you anymore. You’ve been asking yourself the question, “How can I win my wife’s love back?” You wonder if there’s an answer at all. There actually is. There are ways for any man to change the dynamic between him and his wife so the marriage becomes the enriching and uplifting experience it once was.
Winning your wife’s love back starts with recognizing what is pulling you two apart. Sometimes a major conflict erupts in a marriage and the couple finds they are at odds. This eats away at the core of their connection and in time they just aren’t as close emotionally or physically as they once were. If you feel this is what is at the root of the distance in your marriage it’s something you should be addressing as soon as possible. Talk to your wife about the issue that is causing the strain in your marriage. Work with her to find a resolution that works for you both. Remember that you may need to compromise your position to find peace in your marriage again. If your wife sees that you’re willing to take a step back and allow her the opportunity to be right, it can instantly help her feel closer to you.
Often a woman will feel unsatisfied with her marriage because she doesn’t feel appreciated by her husband the way she used to. At one point your wife was likely the major focus of your attention. This was back in the days before you two had children, thriving careers or bills to tend to. Now that’s changed and your wife may secretly feel that you are neglectful of her needs. Although that’s not something you are doing intentionally it may be that she’s absorbing it in that way.
Spend more time focused just on your wife. This may require a bit of a juggling act on your part given that you have a lot to deal with on a daily basis. But even just a few minutes at the beginning or ending of your day can help. If your wife feels you are completely engaged in a conversation with her, she’ll feel more willing to be open with you. Perhaps you can start working on this by ensuring you have time to spend with her at breakfast or a bit of time after dinner while the children tend to their homework or play. A successful marriage takes work and attention. Your wife’s happiness and love are obviously worth that to you.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause your wife to feel even more distant from you. You can make your wife fall back in love with you, all over again.
You don’t have to worry about whether your wife is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make her fall hopelessly in love with you.