How do I get my wife to fall in love with me again? If you’re a man asking this question you wish the answer was simple and clear, right? Relationships are never that way, particularly marriages. Just because you want your wife to start acting the same way she did when you two first married, doesn’t mean you can magically make it happen. Capturing the closeness and adoration of a marriage that has gone stale takes persistence and insight. If you want the woman to love you all over again, you have to make that happen. Pretending it will get better on its own isn’t going to work. You need to roll up your sleeves, open your heart and get to work winning back the love of your wife.
When you’re thinking about ways to get your wife to love you again, consider the crucial importance of having a clear method of communication in your relationship. Obviously you and your wife talk but are you two really delving into the issues that matter? Many marriages fall into a pattern where the couple only focuses on surface issues when they talk. They may touch on what the children are up to or which bills need to be paid that week. However, they never really dive into the matters that are changing the landscape of their relationship. Unless you and your wife talk about what is happening between the two of you, nothing will change. You have to be the one to take the first step in this regard. It’s as simple as asking your wife to talk with you about your marriage. Be attentive and spend most of that time listening to what she shares. If a woman knows her husband is engaged in the conversation and truly wants to save the marriage, she’ll be more willing to pour her heart out to him.
You can also get your wife to feel more connected to you emotionally if you spend more time showing her how much you need and value her. When was the last time that you made dinner for your wife or offered to treat her to a meal at her favorite restaurant? Do you often bring your wife a bouquet of her favorite flowers just because? If you haven’t been making an effort to show her how much you deeply value her as your life partner, she’s not going to know. Begin today by doing one nice thing for her and then keep that up tomorrow, the day after that and forever. When a woman feels that her husband loves her and wants to share that with her, it makes her feel very connected to him on an emotional level.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause your wife to feel even more distant from you. You can make your wife fall back in love with you, all over again.
You don’t have to worry about whether your wife is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make her fall hopelessly in love with you.