Is my wife not attracted to me anymore isn’t a question you ever want to hear yourself saying. Sadly, it’s one that you find yourself wondering about on a daily basis. Your marriage isn’t the same as it used to be. You know that over time couples tend to drift apart, but this feels different to you. Your wife doesn’t seem as interested in you either physically or emotionally. Perhaps you’ve questioned her about what she’s feeling but she’s told you that you’re imagining things or everything is just fine. Your heart knows better. Instead of silently wondering whether or not she really has lost interest in you, there are signs that will help you determine what exactly is going on. Understanding which signs to look for will help you to know where your marriage stands and what your wife really feels for you.
One of the clearest and most obvious signs that your wife isn’t attracted to you anymore is her lack of interest in intimacy. Physical intimacy is an integral part of a happy and fulfilling marriage. If your wife pulls back and suddenly has an array of excuses for why she can’t or won’t be intimate with you, there’s more to it than a bad headache or being over tired. More than likely she isn’t feeling as attracted to you as she once did. This could be just a physical thing or it may be tied to her emotions. If she doesn’t feel as connected to you as she once did, she’ll pull back in all ways.
Does your wife still go out of her way to do small things that make your life easier? Most couples begin their marriages committed to helping their spouse in any way they possibly can. If your wife no longer takes the time to wash your clothes or she leaves you to figure out what you’ll eat for dinner, don’t just assume that’s because her schedule is so full already. She may not feel inclined to go out of her way to help you because the attraction just isn’t there. If she’s feeling not as close to you, she won’t find fulfillment in doing things that are beneficial to you.
One signs that she’s losing interest that you may never consider is that when a woman starts feeling less attracted to her husband she’ll put less effort into making sure she looks good. Obviously life has a way of changing our appearance but when a woman is invested in her marriage she’ll usually want to look her best for her husband because she knows it’s important to him. If your wife never puts on make up or wears the same worn out pair of sweat pants every day, you matter less to her.
If your wife makes endless excuses for why she can’t spend time alone with you, that’s a sign that the attraction she once felt, just isn’t there anymore. Ask your wife out on a date. Tell her that you want to take her out to a favorite restaurant and then watch her reaction. If she’s giddy at the prospect of having a nice meal with you, take that as a positive sign. However, if she says that she can’t arrange babysitting, that she has too much work to catch up on or that she’s not in the mood to eat out, that’s a direct reflection of her desire to spend time just with you. If your wife is doing everything in her power to avoid an evening alone with you, your marriage needs attention before it falls completely apart.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause your wife to feel even more distant from you. You can make your wife fall back in love with you, all over again.
You don’t have to worry about whether your wife is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make her fall hopelessly in love with you.