Your marriage has gotten a little stale. You hate to admit it but it’s true. Your wife and you just don’t connect in the same ways you used to. You feel there’s an emotional distance there now and it’s causing her to pull back and to be disinterested in not only you but the marriage too. It’s concerning given the fact that so many couples in this situation simply throw in the towel and head towards divorce. You can’t even consider that as a distant possibility given how deeply you love and adore her. You can make your wife want you again. It’s very possible if you understand what is lacking in your relationship right now and what you can do to specifically change it for the better.
If you want to make your wife want you again you absolutely must look at what isn’t working in your marriage right now. No relationship is perfect. Life doesn’t work that way. Unless you’re willing to be honest with yourself about what you can improve on as a husband and partner, you can expect your marriage to continue to be unfulfilling for your wife. This process involves honestly considering what you could do differently to make your marriage better for your wife. Perhaps you’re not as involved with home improvements as you could be. Maybe you don’t tell your wife that she’s beautiful as often as you used to. It’s important to really look at your own behavior because it can have a dramatic impact on how your wife sees the marriage and how much she is willing to invest of herself in it.
You must make your spouse’s happiness and fulfillment your top priority if you want to make your wife want you again. As much as you need to focus on your career or your children, you also need to ensure that you are setting time aside to tend to what your wife’s needs. Work harder at being more emotionally available to her. That may mean spending some time each day talking to her or reaching for her hand when you two are watching television together. Showing her that you are still feeling close to her can make an enormous difference in your relationship.
Understanding what you can do to improve your marriage is crucial if you want to make your wife want you again. Talking to her about what she needs is obviously an integral part of this. Although your wife may not be too quick to tell you everything about what she’s feeling if you’re patient and persistent in telling her that you want to know, she will come around. Don’t react negatively to your wife if she shares things that you feel place you in a negative light. Instead, learn from her words and take steps to make yourself into the man she needs you to be. If she sees that you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy again, she’s sure to want you more than she ever has before.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause your wife to feel even more distant from you. You can make your wife fall back in love with you, all over again.
You don’t have to worry about whether your wife is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make her fall hopelessly in love with you.